you detach > they see you ok, which justifies it to them and they maybe come back...?
you don't > they see you hurt, they feel bad...and they do more --
You are looking at it wrong.
you detach > they see you ok [bold]which shows them you are strong, you confident, you don't need them and they maybe come back because they respect strength, confidence and independence. And when they respect a man they are attracted to him.[/bold]
you don't > they see you hurt [bold]which shows them you are weak, you are uncertain, you are clingy and they do more because they do not respect weak, uncertain, clingy men. And when they don't respect a man then they aren't attracted to him either[/bold]
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
