What you are doing to your W is borderline harassment, period. I can see why she needs space from you. You dont listen. She has been prabably telling you for years how she felt and you never cared to listen, you know how know because you arent listening now.
You are doing too much. I dont care what culture you are from, showing up to a person's house unannounced is rude and crazy, especially when a person is telling you they dont want or like it.
Now you are saying if she gets a TRO that will let you know her decision, you wanting her to go that far is crazy. Why does a person have to go that far to get their point across?
She is running from you and I can see why. You seem like a very scary person to be around at the moment.
You are dillusional. And I'm starting to think you need to seek out help to fix this dangerous attachment personality you are displaying. We are here to be honest with you. You seem not to like honesty or anything that goes against your flawed philosophy. That type of trait is never healthy.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
