Is it normal for a WW to check up on you just to see if you're letting go? Like, they get mad at you if you're still hurting at all?
If so, is that like a thing that they expect you to just get over them almost instantly so that they don't have to feel guilty about what they're doing?
Yes, it is common.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!