Act as if you just don't care. You are doing well. She will test you.
You are a centered man that is detached from this unsatisfactory sitch.
I wouldn't move her stuff out if you can stand it. Because you just don't care.
Good job on limiting responses. She will continue to test. She will step up the tests. Stay strong
I mean, I feel pretty good when I have the house to myself. I enjoy working in the garage or cooking or just farting around ya know? When she gets there, it's like a dark cloud has entered the house (for me).
My counselor said something like "that must be hard to look at all her stuff, and your pictures". I was like "no, I haven't even thought about it". I guess I'm lucky about that, because her crap in the master doesn't bother me.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
