I don't think you need to accept her as friends but please realize by you doing what you are doing she grows more and more angry with you each day. If you are ok with this then please continue but it is not helping.
I also don't see how that is respecting her feelings of wanting space and time away. To me it seems very selfish on your end.
I understand your point of view on this matter. She has been angry all along. Her anger WILL NEVER Subside. I just have to live with it. I have given her a lot of space and time. When we were in house separation, I used to GAL pretty much everyday and even then she was not satisfied with the space she got. Now based on the conversations with my mutual friends, she has communicated that she kinda got too much space than needed and hence this vacuum. Yes I know the "Beleive nothing she says" is what I need to adhere. However, she needs to make a decision fast for the betterment of both. This is just screwing up both our lives and careers and doing no good, while we were supposed to be settled down in life by now with kids and family.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)