Hi Helena, your sitch is very different than the standard WAS BDs, I think its the standstill that is slowly eating you away. Like the others I do think physical separation will bring perspective to both you and H. You might realize the MR needs saved by and both be ready to put the work in or one of you may decide the separation should be permanent. But you will be putting things in action that you may not be able to undo. Are you ready to do this or would you rather wait as is and let time be the decider ?
