Thanks for stopping by my thread Marina. It sounds like you've been through a very emotionally difficult situation. I think it takes time, distance and experience to be able to understand all the things that have happened in a long term R. I have been with H since I was 17 so I don't know anything else, I have no frame of reference. And if we ever separate, I have a feeling I would easier see what others see. But in my current situation, all I know is what I know, and I know it doesn't feel right and it certainly doesn't feel good but I still can't quite label it anything.
M: 43, H: 44 Married 18 yrs, Together 26 yrs S17, D15, D8, S6 Still living in MH