Walk Away Spouse after 6 yrs - Part 2

[Nutcrac]

For the Nth time. Don't keep bringing out the sweets thing. Its a normal tradition for anyone to visit to take something as a gift to their home. Rejecting what i got is nothing. LEAVE IT AT THAT!!!
I am not constantly talking to her and chatting with her like love birds. Keeping in touch with her once in a while. Not pursuing or anything. I am minding my own business. If she wants to respond, she can, if she doesn't want to respond, fine by me too. THAT IS DETACHMENT! And going DARK is not. That is what I learnt.
In fact I will give you another update. You guys can lash out more if you want, call me hard-headed and stuff and keep criticizing me. So this is what happened -
I went to her place (She stays an hour away now) and knocked at her door thrice. I was confident in my tone and stood like a pillar (Not a weak pillar like you guys keep telling me) She did not open the door for 5 min. After 5 min she opened the door. I patiently stood there. (Yes she wanted me to go away)

Her: She said the same things, at this time we cannot be discussing anything related to divorce. And you cannot be coming like this uninformed. Our relationship is over.

Me: "I did not come here to discuss anything. I just wanted to take a casual walk with you."

Her: "NO I don't want to take a casual walk with anyone".

Me: "Fair enough, I respect your feelings. I will be waiting down for some more time. If you are interested let me know. If not thats ok and I will leave".

Her: No I clearly don't want to take a walk with you at this time.

I bid her bye. She closed the door and I was walking away. While I was walking away, she opened the door again.

Her: "If you have anything to discuss you can come inside and talk about it.

Me: I have nothing to discuss. Just came here to take a small walk with you outside. Nothing to discuss about the relationship.

For- "I have not taken the decision yet on extending the dissolution date. I need to discuss with my lawyer and get back to you on that by Tuesday."

Me: I know that you will get back to me on that. I did not come here to discuss that issue with you. I just came here to take a short walk with you outside

Her: I am still not interested. Bye

I left and within 5 minutes left that place. While I was driving, I got a call from her -

Her: (In a heated tone) You should not be coming here like this uninformed. It makes me feel difficult. I was tired and didn't feel like coming out for a walk. And moreover I have to get up early morning.

Me: I understand. Either ways the weather was also very hot when i was out (It was late evening). And its good in a way i guess. That's ok

Her: I don't think the walk and all is something that I wish to do at this stage. Yes this was something I was expecting to do with you long ago. But it is too late.

Me: Its upto you. I understand.

Her: You need to know this is not the time to discuss anything other than divorce. At this time we should not be meeting like this.

Didn't say anything.

Her: I feel bad every time you come here uninformed, If I have to send you out like this, I cannot feel good about it. Hope you understand.

Me: I understand, Its upto you on what you want to do.

Her: Please don't try to meet me like this without informing. Its hard for me.

Didn't say anything.

Her: Take Care. Bye.

Hung up the phone. I drove back to my place. No Hard feelings. Totally fine and didn't take anything that happened to my heart or anything.
Now you guys can start lashing me out again.