Originally Posted By: Nutcrac

Don t call any of my above points as Anti DBing.
If you want to have a constructive feedback, go ahead.
Else Agree to disagree. And I am pretty sure, If you say WAW is same as WW, your concept is garbage. Ya i could have a lot of similarities to other situations, but sometimes, you need to incorporate certain LLs depending on what your spouse admires to.
If its done in a consistent way, it may work.
Again there is no straightforward approach anyways.
You also agree DBing is also a 50/50 possibility.


NC, I think you need to take a step back and ask yourself what you want from these forums. You are VERY hard-headed. You have your own notions of what you think will work in your particular sitch, and when people point out your notions are at odds with DB ing (which they are I assure you) you get extremely offended and defensive and go on the attack. I suspect this attitude may be a huge part of why you ended up here to begin with and it is something you should really consider doing a 180 on.

Most people do not listen with the intent to understand they listen with the intent to reply. Stephen R. Covey.

This is you. READ TO UNDERSTAND, NOT TO REPLY.

Last edited by Cadet; 07/03/18 01:26 AM. Reason: restored post

Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57