Nut - if you pursue and give sweets or whatever to a spouse that wants nothing to do with you it will make you look weak and pathetic. Why would you want to do this for someone that has made it clear that they want nothing to do with you?

Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018