Due to the school holidays i go into work late and finish late. So i go to my GAL ativities straight from work and get home at 9:20pm. W is on the phone with her friend, so i go looking for the kids and can only find my son. Searching and calling out for my daughter, but no reply. Eventually i find her led down on the bathroom floor, i try to engage ber, but she tells me to leave her alone. So i just leave her be.
I go up stairs with my S10 and stay with him. The w is on the phone for another 30 minutes and then comes up stairs and asks if i have any plans for friday. I say no. She wants go out to friends house warming party. Then i remind her that she has booked tickets to go the theatre at 6.30pm. She responds, i forgot about that, but i can go to the party straight from the theatre.
Later on the daughter is in her bedroom with the music quite loud. The W is going to bed and asks her to turn it down, gets no response, so starts shouting at her. D12 still does not respond, so the W comes upstairs to kiss S10 goodnight and explains that D12 has her music on loud and it needs to be sorted. I ask what is wrong with her, why is she distant, the W says that she is hating W at the moment.so i respond and say ill go and have a chat with her. I get a comment back from W, thats write superdad go and sort it out. I didn't respond. I ask D12 to turn it down in a calm voice, but she does not respond, i then say its a bit late have it on this oud. So she turns it off, and i say thank you.
So the wife is normally asleep by 9.30pm. As i go to bed at 11.30pm her lights are still on. I just go to bed and sleep.
Wake up and go to have my shower and the W has packed 90 percent of her clothes in suitcases. She going 100mph, i think this is why D12 was like she was.
I dont really know how to aporoach this with my D12, as i would like to tell her that no matter what happens that this house will always be here for her. And that if she is staying at mums and doesn't want to be there, she can ring me at any time to come and pick her up. But that would seem like i'm putting pressure on D12. I don't want to do that.
