W rushing thru D, help

[joejoe1]

Cory,

I know the feeling brother. Its painful and exhausting.

You want answers, but what if your W don't have those answers. What if she is depressed and full of shame, but she is moving forward because she is scared to face you. Well your your sympathy and sorrow scares her off. She knows you are hurting and your weakness is ugly and push her away. Become strong. It will take time and patient. One day at a time. Rise up!

Why do you think you deserve answers. You know why, because you are entitled. You think you are entitled to get an answer from a woman that you are married too. But you wanting answers is a form of control. Stop trying to control her and your sitch. Let her go. Stop feeling entitled and start feeling empowered. Grab the power back over your life, That's what you deserve. You deserve to love yourself more than anybody else ever have or ever will.

Stand up, stop feeling sorrow for yourself and show your W a confident Cory. That's how you get to your answers one day not by showing her pain but confidence.

Jump out a plane(skydiving). Ziplining. Bungie jumping. Do something you always wanted to do. Plan and put a date on it. Look it up, booked it and put it on your calender. You owe yourself love now!!!!

Onward and forward.