hongaku/mtb I appreciate your comments. Yep definitely know sep is not a D decree and I definitely knew the old MR was done long ago. I was meaning that it would have been nice to have had a chance to hear what/how we got to this point. Pretty sure that will not happen, but who knows.
I think in this instance D will be the end, but perhaps it's a blessing. For a person to take such major decisions in a seemingly rash manner. As a friend said perhaps it's God's way of getting me and D clear of her to save us from what awaits her.
I'll continue to stay detached, focus on my D and my life and get through this.
