One thing I always had to remind myself of was that D is not always the end. That if W and I were to R, it could still be possible after D. That frame of mind helped me out a lot...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
