And yes abuse is abuse speaking for myself I remember sitting in therapy and telling my therapist W is not abusive she never hit me. It took time to see I was in an abusive relationship.
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9
