Bhappy, You say you didn't think H is abusive there is different abuse. After lots of therapy I have been in a emotional abusive relationship and I can say this emotional abuse stays forever and breaks us to ourself esteem is gone. I am a strong business woman and I am now finding myself again W controlled everything and if W didn't get her way hell will break lose so what did I do I gave in to everything. Now I am seeing a little more clear I have removed my blinders. Sometimes we must do the right thing for your insanity.
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9
