Been keeping busy and having fun with the kids. Last night, we went to a friend's house for a pool party. The kids ended up wanting to spend the night and play video games with friend's son, so we all stayed and had a sleepover with video games and Chinese food. Today was the first day of swim lessons for the middle 2 kids. They had a blast. Probably going to go to a 4th of July parade on the 4th and watch the fireworks with the kids. They seem to be dealing with everything pretty well for the most part. I know it's been hard on them not having their mom around, but at the same time, I think it makes it somewhat easier for them with her being totally absent...

Also, got a text from my best friend saying that someone threw something at his windshield and broke it. He was parked in a parking lot near a local bar that W apparently just got hired at. (She's having a hard time keeping jobs) He told me he suspects it was her. W was at the brewpub where he and OM work later that night. She likes to show up when OM is bartending despite the fact she has been banned there by the manager/owner. Anyway, another employee called my BF and told him W was up there talking about his broken windshield and telling people that she thinks it was me that did it. Along with the usual BS of me beating her and stalking her. Funny thing is, BF had not told anybody about the broken windshield yet, but somehow she knew about it and was talking about it...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...