My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 3

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Hello all. Just a small update. Last Wednesday, I got home late. WW is awake in bed, light on. I shower and come out to get in bed, WW acts startled like I woke her up. Then complains about me sleeping in the bed. I say "do I really need to explain this again?"

I'm ready to tell her to get the heck out of our marital bed at this point. But I didn't last week, she slept in there with me. Next morning, she said goodbye when she left. Then she texted on her way to work, then called to warn me of a major accident causing traffic.

I tried getting off the phone twice, WW stopped me to ask if I got Snapchat (I did, but got rid of it 5 hours later). She got a notification. WW then asks if I'm going to the lake. I say yes to my mom's. WW asks what my mom thinks. I should have told WW to ask my mom.

WW said last week she was "prolly not ready for counseling", when I was pursuing. She is just keeping me simmering on the back burner.

WW has tried logging into my Instagram a few times too. Got an email saying it looks like you're having trouble logging in. Prolly wants to see my DM's.

Of course I get a 9 AM text message today. During the workday she can talk to me. I didn't respond.

Obviously I am not there yet. Still hanging on. But I'm ready to let go, or at least making progress. I will not answer her questions about my whereabouts. If phone call gets slow or off topic, I will say goodbye and click.

Thinking about using the phrase "that sounds like a question my wife would ask" when she is all in my business.