Also, I was reading someone elses post and they were talking about pictures and rings. If I am not ready to give up on us, is it appropriate for me to stop wearing my ring and take down pictures of us around the house. The pictures were just too hard for me to look at every day. He has only come around once, a month ago.


Married- 1y8m Together- 7.5y
M- 37 H- 31
S- 4 months
not wanting to work on things bomb- 4/15/18
left home- 5/5/18
Moved in with OW a week after leaving