My suggestion. STOP READING INTO THE RULES THINGS YOU WANT TO BE THERE!
She won't believe you have REALLY moved on unless she believes you have 100% moved on! This is a ridiculous question.
"Does my W believe I really love her if I only love her 80%?"
"Am I still a man if I am only a man 90%?"
"Will my WAW comeback if she thinks I've only moved on 75%?"
LOL
This is what I understand from Moving ON - Ability to carry on with One's life with or without WAW. So when I move ON, either I can proceed single or I can go on and start dating someone else. If my wife sees that I have started dating someone else, it is a good sign for her to cut me off from her life. Mine is a "loss of love" situation. This is what she will be thinking in her mind -" I was either ways unattractive to my spouse, he chose his new life partner. This affirms my decision."
Your sitch is no different than anyone else's. You are splitting hairs with this "love loss" and "WAW vs WW" garbage. But you will continue to go down that path.
Please for the sake of others' and their sitch, please keep these anti-DBing theories confined to your own thread. The recipe for every sitch is still:
GAL, 180, detachment, and being the best you can be.
Don't call any of my above points as Anti- DBing. If you want to have a constructive feedback, go ahead. Else Agree to disagree. And I am pretty sure, If you say WAW is same as WW, your concept is garbage. Ya i could have a lot of similarities to other situations, but sometimes, you need to incorporate certain LLs depending on what your spouse admires to. If its done in a consistent way, it may work. Again there is no straightforward approach anyways. You also agree DBing is also a 50-50 possibility.
GAL, 180 detachment are the things I am doing as well. And I am not against it!
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
