Originally Posted By: Nutcrac
Originally Posted By: Steve85


My suggestion. STOP READING INTO THE RULES THINGS YOU WANT TO BE THERE!

She won't believe you have REALLY moved on unless she believes you have 100% moved on! This is a ridiculous question.

"Does my W believe I really love her if I only love her 80%?"

"Am I still a man if I am only a man 90%?"

"Will my WAW comeback if she thinks I've only moved on 75%?"

LOL


This is what I understand from Moving ON - Ability to carry on with One's life with or without WAW. So when I move ON, either I can proceed single or I can go on and start dating someone else. If my wife sees that I have started dating someone else, it is a good sign for her to cut me off from her life. Mine is a "loss of love" situation. This is what she will be thinking in her mind -" I was either ways unattractive to my spouse, he chose his new life partner. This affirms my decision."


Your sitch is no different than anyone else's. You are splitting hairs with this "love loss" and "WAW vs WW" garbage. But you will continue to go down that path.

Please for the sake of others' and their sitch, please keep these anti-DBing theories confined to your own thread. The recipe for every sitch is still:

GAL, 180, detachment, and being the best you can be.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018