Been quite evtfjl to say the least since my last post. I probably the worst dbing person alive. I think having 2 kids on my schedule has a lot to do with it. I'm really not sure. I don't get much feedback here and I'm really just giving up on her so there's that.
Anyway I took a week off. First to get started on GAL and spend time with my boys and know where they are and they are safe.
Monday was sleep then go pick up my boys. Which I allready posted about.
Tuesday my mom was coming to help me with them while I got to business. Went to see lawyer. Didn't quite go as I wanted it to, needless to say I won't be going after full custody and we will share kids time as we can according to our schedules.
Wednesday as part of my GAL I needed to buy a car. I have drove old cars and constantly worked on them for yrs. I was going to buy ex a new car for christmas, but since she left I figured why wait. Time to take care of me and kids. I found car, and wouldn't be ready until Thursday. Ok
Thursday went and got car, kids loved it. We came home and regrouped drove around a little, S6 wanted to go bowling so we went had a blast.
Friday was waterpark day. We went to our city water park for a few hrs, now a 6 Ur old and a 2 yr old by yourself in a huge pool is quite a challenge. But we did it and had a ball.
Saturday was my celebrating S6 bday. I haven't had a chance to have him a party and that was the day I did it. Coincidentally It fell on my bday. So was my wish, we didn't acknowledge me and made it about him at my parents house. It was just us family, but we swam and cooked steak. It was a good day.
Here is where the drama set it, and it's part of my bad thing
So my exs new boyfriend has a son he does not acknowledge or care about. Guess what, he has the same bday as me as per FB. Being me I couldn't stop myself. I msg ex and asked if they were having him a bday party. She didn't even know he had a son. He had been lying to her all this time. Of course she acted like nothing and that was all we communicated about that.
Fast forward to today I took kids to babysitters while she's at work, I had to go by dentist office and set up an appointment. While I was there I checked on S6 appointment. He has big teeth coming in that didn't push out baby teeth. So they are still there. Big concern for me.
Turns out she missed the appointment. Made me super mad. So when I left the office I called her to inquire. Well she said she tried to. Call to reschedule but haven't been able to yet.
Ok we hang up. I get going down the road and she calls back. Lighting in to my ass about checking up on her new bf through FB and child support. ( I still pay her car insurance. And cell bill) I'm trying to get out of it but it's complicated. Ugh
Calls me lots of names and we argued some. Later she txted and alpollogized for calling me the things she did. I told her that I didn't care what she called me, that I would do what I had to to know my kids were safe. She says I should trust her as the mother to my children to know they are. and that was last communication.
I'm quite sure knowing her she is knee deep in with this guy and I don't see an end. I hope I'm wrong. I love her more than anything other than my kids, even after all she has done.
When she loves someone she will do anything for them. I know, she has done things you all would drop your jaws if you knew.
So I guess this is my limbo period, where I gal and move on. Try not to get into a custody battle and just manage things. I wish she would wake up, her money is getting tight. I think it's begging to be a logistical problem for her with kids. School is out to. Just wait until that comes. Going to be a doosey.
