Hey Arsh, Just chiming in for a moment. WAY too new and wrapped up in my own stuff to give advice on what/when/how you should do anything. I've noticed you have some great people pitching in and know that I'm pulling for you as well! Just taking MWD's words, you have to be the lighthouse and be there if/when they decide. IF you decide otherwise, it is your choice when. None of us want to be there and some days this board is the only thing that gets me through. Others it gives me the strength and amazing tips to handle anything. You want to fall apart, I get it, I am right there with you! You can't. You have no choice but to move on. If he chooses to be a part of your life, then so be it, if he chooses not to, so be it as well. Be the spouse only a fool would want to leave!
We are all pulling for you and your family!
M51 W44 T21 M18 D14 S11 BD date 9/17 W filed 02/18 W withdrew petition following week In house separation 03/18 In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18 W is moving out by mid Nov 2018 A drawing up paperwork 11/18