12. Act "as if" you are moving on with your life with or without them and that you are going to be okay. Keep a good attitude.
Sandi2 and others - I wanted to specifically understand and elaborate this rule from your prespective. I know that this is a situation where some depressed, broken heart WAWs take it otherwise. They simply want you to move on so they can happily go about what they wish to do in their next phase of life. I feel the WAW should not get too much of a hint that we have 100% moved on. They should get an impression, that we have the ability to move on and we will be ok, but if they wish to come back, we still can allow them. Any suggestions?
My suggestion. STOP READING INTO THE RULES THINGS YOU WANT TO BE THERE!
She won't believe you have REALLY moved on unless she believes you have 100% moved on! This is a ridiculous question.
"Does my W believe I really love her if I only love her 80%?"
"Am I still a man if I am only a man 90%?"
"Will my WAW comeback if she thinks I've only moved on 75%?"
LOL
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
