Again you are using detached and distant interchangeably. And your W has already said she wants nothing to do with you. Why would you initiate conversation? Also I think you have the wrong idea of NC and dark. It isn't that you don't respond, you don't initiate.
YOU ARE THE LIGHTHOUSE. Ships come to you, you do not go to them. Your WAW thinking you've moved on is the only chance you have at getting her back. Pursuit. Pressure. Showing up at he place with sweets pushes her farther away.
Nuf said.
Steve85 - This is esactly what I am talking about. She will never come if I don't have the emotional connect with her. She feels i am cold, sullen and distant. Look at Sandi2's post. Not everything WAW says can't be beleived. I am of course detached. What a strong man does? He offers extends his hand (Not begging pleading or chasing). If she says no. Walks away. And keep that emotional connect once in a while so that my wife knows that I still value her. At least I know my wife. In my case, she already is thinking in her mind - I have moved on and there is no point in waiting for him. Right now, I am giving a signal to her indirectly communicating that I have the ability to move ON, however I can wait for you if you decide to change your mind. My wait is under my control.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
