The problem is that she is never going to show me her text messages and it isn't because of an A or having something to hide. She is picky about personal space and privacy and has been since day one. However, the main issue is her attitude about it. If she isn't comfortable with me directly reading her messages, we can find other ways to have transparency that satisfy both of us
This should end when two lives become one. The problem is that people go into marriage not really understanding what marriage really is. A sandi said, there should be no secrets in a marriage.
A person that defends hiding something is a person with something to hide.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
