Again you are using detached and distant interchangeably. And your W has already said she wants nothing to do with you. Why would you initiate conversation? Also I think you have the wrong idea of NC and dark. It isn't that you don't respond, you don't initiate.

YOU ARE THE LIGHTHOUSE. Ships come to you, you do not go to them. Your WAW thinking you've moved on is the only chance you have at getting her back. Pursuit. Pressure. Showing up at he place with sweets pushes her farther away.

Nuf said.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018