That would be really great. Your story gave me hope that maybe I can get to a place where I know in my heart I will be ok either way, WHILE we are still living in the same house. I desperately need to get where you are and have no idea how. My path cannot be the same as yours as I have smaller children and can't be gone that much (plus I'm simply not that social haha) but somehow I need to make friends and start to have a life outside of H and his family.
M: 43, H: 44 Married 18 yrs, Together 26 yrs S17, D15, D8, S6 Still living in MH