I was weak!!! I texted W that it hurt to not hear from her yesterday..She said "I am sorry about that, I hope you had a good day. Just trying to DISTANCE myself, so I can move on with my life. I certainly didn't do or not do anything to intentionally hurt you"...I agreed that distance will help us both move on with our lives..
I thought I was the one that was trying to distance myself, I thought she already did a really good job of it, when she asked for D and rushed through it so quickly...How much more hurt do I have to take before I realize it is over and let go?!?! It seemed so much more promising a few weeks ago and now all Hope is gone..I just don't have the patience to feel this depressed and let time heal, I feel like I'm wasting my life
Bring those ideas to the board first, so we can tell you what you don't want to hear ahead of time and spare you some pain. You do want to get back with your W, right?
So use the resources you have to make that happen. Your W was being kind by not giving you false hope, but I'm sure she loves that she still has a little fishy on the other line, just in case.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.