Can I really do this #4

[Dtrmned]

Steve, I totally agree with you and that is the issue.

I know I cannot believe anything she says and only half of what she does. Life is always a gamble and there are never any guarantees. I do see your point and I don't want her to stay just to get out of the city. Her seeing my desire to keep our family together gives her ample opportunity to try to take advantage of the situation. The part that gets me in all of this is that if she is so dead set about being done wouldn't she be gone? Moved out of the house? Moved out of our bedroom? Gotten a job? Something? Anything?

We are not fighting. We are cordial. I am, I believe, db'ing in the best way I can (definitely made some BAD mistakes along the way). AND I do believe she is seeing the changes. The R pressure and now the relocation pressure are HUGE as unfortunately I would need to get this done in he next 45 days to get this kids into a new school prior to the new school year. If not, I would not like the delay, but would do ALL that I can to give her the time and space she needs to maybe realize WE are worth fighting for.