Steve,
The answer to that question is a resounding "No". My heart, mind and soul want to keep my family and MR together. I do not want to be with someone who truly doesn't want to be with me. Especially if this is just for financial or relocation purposes. This is where I am confused. DB'ing is giving them time and space so they can think on their actions and decisions. It is also for me to GAL, make myself into the person I want to be, be the best parent I can be for our children and IF by some reason she realizes I am the "spouse only a fool would leave" that there is a chance for us to create a path and plan to begin a new and better MR. Tough to give space, time and not exert any pressure when this opportunity is very time sensitive and action will have to be taken quickly if WE would forward for our future.


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18