Affair discovered 2

[STH17]

No, she doesn't work. i feel like I need to literally shake the idea out of my head that I need to be supporting her financially anymore. Her not having a job is not my fault. When she had a job, she did share any of her income with me. I get emotional/angry thinking about that.

I'm having a hard time going about this without it just turning into a blame game, me telling W "This is what you wanted"

I fully expect it to push her to angrily D and reinforce her view of me as being controlling and abusive. That's why I would give her half now, so I'm not just dropping her in a shark tank. And I would probably want to cut everything off completely after one month.