Husband left for the second time - 5

[SteveLW]

I'm not offering any special emotional support but I also don't want my husband to commit suicide so I'm being as nice as possible.

Nicole, I understand your concern. But here is the thing, you have no control over that. HE has caused the separation. HE has caused his current circumstances. HE can choose how to handle what HE created.

Nicole, you know him better than I do, so when I say I think there is a small chance of him committing suicide I say that out of normal statistical probabilities. But please understand one thing:

IF HE WERE TO COMMIT SUICIDE IT WOULD NOT BE IN ANY WAY SHAPE NOR FORM, YOUR FAULT. WOULD NOT!

I say that because as a victim of suicide in my life, it is easy to blame yourself. But unless you have participated in the suicide, assisted in some way, it is NEVER the left behind's fault. And in your sitch there is no way you should be blaming yourself if that were to occur.