She knows...Pt. 3

[SteveLW]

blackmac, I have told OrangeK multiple times that restraining orders are almost a blessing in disguise. Obviously nobody wants one put on them, especially unwarranted. But it does put you into a forced detachment physically, which helps immensely with emotional detachment.

it does make some logistics difficult though (which can cause you to spend too much time thinking about your W), and it can also make DBing difficult because you don't see the point. But remember, GAL is for you! Detachment is for you! 180s are for you! That is how you get better through this. They also sometimes have the side benefit of making your WAW take notice. But the latter should never be the focus or your changes will be genuine.