Wife is not who I married...Pls Help Pt 4

[HelenaJ]

I can tell that you believe in a relationship between the two of them, I can see that from what you post. My suggestions were geared toward helping S cope with some of the feelings he has and just making sure he knows that you dont expect him to take your side. Thats what I would worry about if it were me...that my kid feels the need to protect me or side with me or be angry on behalf of me. If you feel confident that hes carrying the burden of only his feelings then thats good and thats what I was getting at. Just keep being a good dad, thats the best thing for all of you right now.