Been reading your threads like mad, trying to figure out what to do next. I'll admit, I made all the classic mistakes for the first 10 days or so. Our MC wanted her to make a decision, work on the M, or move on. I'm not entirely sure she wasnt sure what to do. So after lurking on this site, I've backed off, no ILY's, sent her out of MBR etc. Started working on myself, get up at 6am, workouts etc.
Shes still spending lots of time with these writing people. Really bad influence I think. But like you guys keep saying, I can only control myself. Hopefully she comes back around.
Either way though I'm going to be a better version of myself. I wont tolerate the bad behaviour and will work on standing up for myself.
Sandi2 I'm sure your on to something, she wants the best of both worlds. She says she wants a divorce, but wants us to do lots of "family" stuff after. Cake eating I think you guys call it.
She wants to exchange the kids every 2-3 days since she "cant take it" for long periods of time. She wanted a child schedule where I would have the kids every sun and every other sat.
Wants weekends free to hang with her friends I guess. Wants to be "happy".
If we do divorce, I think I'll tell her she can keep chasing her happyness but by pushing me and the kids away she'll always be unhappy.
