Loves you cannot control him - He will do what he wants to do. you need to step back focus on you and your child. Let him take this journey by himself to figure out what he wants and needs. Give him time and space. hopefully what will happen is he will feel the grass is greener on the other side - but with some self reflection he will see if he watered and maintained his grass it would be just as green if not GREENER. He can run away from you but once you give him time and space and you are no longer there to blame - then hope fully he will put his efforts into reflecting and healing himself. Good Luck!


M51 w50
T-20Yrs M-16Yrs
S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up
1 Awesum dog
BD 10/31/17
separate rooms 02/08/18
wife moved out 05/17/18