And the short answer to your unanswerable question is I hope so

But letting go of w also means letting go of the outcome

Life is more complicated than I knew back before b d

So we have to seize control of what we can which is only ourselves

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving