KML, sure, I do see the difference. Unfortunately I never fell in love with a guy like the one Ginger's dating. I fell in love with my husband who turned out to be like this. I'm not sure if it's bad luck (there was no sign before marriage that he didn't want kids - he wanted two) or my own bad judgment. Anyway now I'm facing the consequences.
HelenaJ, that sounds like a good decision regarding the gold band. That's what I always wore as well. I do wonder about why some men are the way they are. There are so many theories but I guess in some cases in social science we'll never truly understand.
