One question i had was about my wife not willing to leave the m bed. I told her i dont want her in there anymore and that she shouldmove out or take the spare bedroom. She refused and said why should i, and i said because you are the one having an affair.(this was two days ago, the last time i spokd with her. Now ive completely detached)
Last night i fell asleep on the living toom couch and havent been in the bed with her since i told her to leave. My question is if shs refuses to leave and i sleep on couch does she just gain more control and power from that? Two ways of looking at it, i refuse to sleep in same bed as her, so that shows strength and detachment. But her refusing to leave and forcing me to leave shows weakness and gives her control? Any help appreciated!
