hongaku- WW/WAW are really selfish people only worried about themselves. They cannot think properly- as sandi says their brains are scrambled eggs. Most W leave their families thinking that the grass is greener on the other side when they should just water and maintain the grass that they are on. Hopefully what will happen after you give your wife time and space - she will see will continue to have those feelings of negativity and resentment and look to displace them on you. Because you are not there to place blame on- this may force her to look to herself to why she is unhappy.They can run away from you but they can't run away from themselves. For my sich my W has left and has very little contact with me and my S. She has seen and talked with him for less than 3 hours in a month and a half. I would not be able to handle this if it were me. This would equate to a slow death. I would want/need contact and connection if not updates about my S. How my W functions I do not know. She has this journey she needs to do on her own. Blessings on your journey!
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18