fmly- You hit the nail on the head often times in life we let our pride and ego hold us back from learning and growth. This choice that your W has made will be her journey to do alone. Best to focus on yourself. Good Luck!
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18