bm my only advice is to be careful how far you are willing to go in court if you hedge any desire to enter reconcile again. IE don't burn bridges. I know you don't want to get "screwed". By when i comes out of this fog, and likely she will at some point, she will be more likely to want to R if you were gracious throughout the legal proceedings. Think about what will make a bigger impression.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
