I don't think it would work that way. Both of you would disagree at some points, get upset, and in the end....go your separate ways. I think you will have to find closure through acceptance of the situation. Don't misunderstand what I mean. You don't have to like it, or agree with it, but if you can't change it......then you have to accept it is what it is.
Until you reach the place of acceptance, the sitch owns you. Your life will be put on hold.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!