Need advice on detaching- Part 2

[kiro]

It would be nice if I could get closure. How nice would it be if I could convince my wife that we both need closure and that it would be nice for each of us to explain to the other openly everything that happened from his/her point of view during the marriage. Instead of guessing every day what happened and why she did what she did, it would be nice if she explained it all. I would just listen and not say anything. Then, I would explain openly everything that I felt and why I behaved the way I did during our marriage.

That would help get closure, but it would go completely against the LRT. I don't think she would accept to do this anyway. Thoughts?