I'm about to say something completely opposed to standing:
I'm hella glad you're free of this bozo. I'm thrilled your spoon is bigger! I'm delighted you're setting healthy limits and no longer living under the tyranny of his MLC/mental illness.

xoxoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver