Maybe, but you need to snap out of it first and get a grip on yourself. You have to focus on you and your kids right now. It is easy to say and hard to do. I say it to you now as much for my own reinforcement as it is advice to you.
Your sitch is devouring practically your every waking thought, right? I know mine is. But you have to make a choice to step back and control what you can control. You are still going to be preoccupied with your sitch, but you have to start really letting go and letting your W do what she is going to do. Focus on you and your kids. Period.
M: 40 W: 37 T: 20 MR: 13 S13, S9, S4 BD: 1/29/18 Sep: 4/23/18 (I moved out) 8/24/18 I come home, she moves out
If you want to get out of the hole, drop the shovel.
