Thanks for the support Neffer. Eric, thank you. I have made detailed notes of all feedback and I am updating my exit interview speech, somehow it feels like the end of a job now. I am practicing it and thinking of the curve balls he will definitely throw. I think I have patience and shutting my mouth well covered, the darn emotions and tears is what get the better of me. But I need to be strong for my children.
H has been acting extra friendly past 2 days, he has mediation arranged and wants to discuss terms so I know better than to read positive into this but I wonder if he is being manipulative to lead me on and feed me crumbs. I was playing with the kids in the room with door closed, he never comes and participates but yesterday he did and laid down next to all of us. I just stayed put as if it did not matter and continued concentrating on the kids. D3 was so happy she had both of us together. He comes and sits next to me on the couch while I was watching TV, he couldnt tolerate being in the same room with me last month and now he finds a seat next to me with the whole couch open. Again I just watched TV laughed as the comedy went on and when i was done just got up to do my own thing. His pretense is actually becoming repulsive to me. Is this because he wants to pretend to be nice to me before mediation or is he feeling he is losing control? Either way, as I type, I know I am still analyzing him and I should rather be doing better things with my time.
