I've read all of sandi's posts and am working on detachment. I'm def the more needy one in the relationship. I'm working on the tough love. I have her sleeping downstairs, while I took the MBR. Her asking for a divorce I think would have been one thing, but the lying and betrayal just cuts me deeper. I dont know how one humanbeing can do that to another. Hardest thing I've ever been through. One step at a time I guess.
