Patience & DB / Detach or Divorce

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On the beach stuff. It is not really any drama. I go thurs-mon am for lacrosse tournament - guys time. W is going to be at the beach that sat - sat with her parents. I have a friend who is allowing me to use his beach house so I plan on picking up my daughter and doing two nights with her at my friends.

Would love some advice on this- how to get desire from my wife. She has helped me move a lot. She did a lot of the packing and I am going to help carry some of heavy things for her tomorrow.

After we are both in our own places.. LRT? Embrace detaching. What about dating? Per Sandis advice leave her alone. Act like a friendly grocery clerk. As soon as we are settled in our own places that is my plan. Those that have been successful in reconciliation I would love to hear from you.

The hardest part is now we get along. W asked about going out to eat the 3 of us today. Something she has not mentioned since separation.

That being said I do not want a friend. I want my W back. Thanks all.